Rose Madrid-Swetman

— Random Thoughts, Stories of Life, and Questions about the Journey —


August 9, 2009

Vacation Day 1

Category: All Posts,Stories of Life – Rose – 10:20 am

I woke up this morning at 9:15! This is sad but I can’t remember the last time I woke up before 7:00 on a Sunday morning. We are in Southern Cal on vacation.

Rich and I, Alex and Nate, our friend, Jo and her girls are here and Nicole comes on Tuesday. We are staying at the Worldmark resort close to Disneyland. Getting here was a bit of a challenge. There was a 9 year old girl traveling alone sitting in the window seat. Alex was next to her, then Nate on the aisle. I sat in the aisle seat across from them with a teenager next to me and her mom in the window seat.

The 9 year old told us she was flying to California to visit “my mom’s ex-husband, my dad.” She was hyper. She would not leave the boys alone. She kept leaning into them. At one point the boys were playing cards, she took a card and held it up high so Alex couldn’t get it. At first the boys were good sports but an hour into the flight with her constant up and down, in and out and teasing, she was driving them nuts. I had to ask her, nicely several times to leave the boys alone and to stay in her seat.

I was listening to an audio book on my computer and all of a sudden the young woman next to me spilled her Sprite all over me and my keyboard. It took a while to clean it all up….my computer survived, I was covered in soda. We no more got that all settled, I sat down and then I hear Alex, “AH, NO.” I look over and the feisty 9 year old has now spilled her soda all over Alex. I went back to get some towels from the flight attendants and asked them to talk with her and ask her to please settle down.

All of a sudden my two hour flight to begin vacation felt a bit strained and all I wanted to do was get off that plane. Nate traded places with Alex, had better results with her calming down (I think when he put his elbow in her face cause she kept leaning into him she finally got the message).

The flight from H#LL finally ended, we rented a car and got to our condo. We couldn’t check in for a few hours so we had a nice lunch and walked around the outdoor mall. We caught up with Jo and the girls, it took forever to get our room but we finally got our rooms, went to the pool, the kids played in the game room while we cooked dinner. Had dinner, played Scrabble watched “I Carly” and then we all crashed.

Today we are going to the beach. Tomorrow our Disneyland adventure begins. I love Disneyland. The kids are a great age to have tons of fun here at the Happiest Place on Earth!

August 7, 2009

Going on Vacation

Category: All Posts – Rose – 5:46 pm

Tomorrow morning, Rich, Alex, Nate and I leave for southern California. 7 days at our time-share condo close to Disneyland. I am looking forward to time at the pool, reading, mickey, minnie and of course California Screamin…

Back in a week!

August 4, 2009

Father Abraham and child sacrifice

Category: All Posts – Rose – 11:17 am

Recently I was studying the cross. What happened is multi-faceted and probably will never really be fully understood in this life. As I was studying I came across the story of Abraham and Isaac. Have you ever had someone ask you about this story? I have. Here is how it goes, “what kind of god asks you to kill your firstborn son?” Which then usually goes into a diatribe about how destructive religion is and how the god of the Old Testament was barbaric and on and on.

I don’t have all the answers but I do know that God has worked in culture for his/her purposes to come about. Abraham lived in a culture that worshipped many gods. It was part of his life to offer sacrifices to the gods. The first of their livestock, crops and even firstborn children were offered to the gods in the ancient Sumerian culture.

When the voice of God first speaks to Abraham something different is happening. The unknown Divine is actually communicating to a human, is connecting in a way the gods do not connect with humans. Abraham responds and goes, not knowing where he is going but trusting in this God who is very different than the gods he has offered sacrifices to all his life.

At the point God ask Abraham to sacrifice his son, Abraham obeys because that’s what you do if you are a good ancient, you sacrifice to the gods. I don’t believe the only point of this story is about Abraham’s faithfulness and obedience. As terrible as it must have been for Abraham, this request was not out of the norm.

The point of the story for me is this God said, no don’t, and provided a ram. This God is different than the other gods of his time, he intervened to show Abraham who He/She was – the God that doesn’t require a sacrifice but the God who provides. This God is love. This God provides. This God will intervene in time, space and history to connect with humans and say “go” or “follow me”

This God is not like the gods of stress, worry, success, image, consumerism, self-absorption, that demand our sacrifices of health, time, peace, joy, relationships, distraction from the real issues of life, humanity as we were meant to be.

This God provides! Learning to step into it is and ongoing practice eh?