Rose Madrid-Swetman

— Random Thoughts, Stories of Life, and Questions about the Journey —


August 7, 2009

Going on Vacation

Category: All Posts – Rose – 5:46 pm

Tomorrow morning, Rich, Alex, Nate and I leave for southern California. 7 days at our time-share condo close to Disneyland. I am looking forward to time at the pool, reading, mickey, minnie and of course California Screamin…

Back in a week!

August 4, 2009

Father Abraham and child sacrifice

Category: All Posts – Rose – 11:17 am

Recently I was studying the cross. What happened is multi-faceted and probably will never really be fully understood in this life. As I was studying I came across the story of Abraham and Isaac. Have you ever had someone ask you about this story? I have. Here is how it goes, “what kind of god asks you to kill your firstborn son?” Which then usually goes into a diatribe about how destructive religion is and how the god of the Old Testament was barbaric and on and on.

I don’t have all the answers but I do know that God has worked in culture for his/her purposes to come about. Abraham lived in a culture that worshipped many gods. It was part of his life to offer sacrifices to the gods. The first of their livestock, crops and even firstborn children were offered to the gods in the ancient Sumerian culture.

When the voice of God first speaks to Abraham something different is happening. The unknown Divine is actually communicating to a human, is connecting in a way the gods do not connect with humans. Abraham responds and goes, not knowing where he is going but trusting in this God who is very different than the gods he has offered sacrifices to all his life.

At the point God ask Abraham to sacrifice his son, Abraham obeys because that’s what you do if you are a good ancient, you sacrifice to the gods. I don’t believe the only point of this story is about Abraham’s faithfulness and obedience. As terrible as it must have been for Abraham, this request was not out of the norm.

The point of the story for me is this God said, no don’t, and provided a ram. This God is different than the other gods of his time, he intervened to show Abraham who He/She was – the God that doesn’t require a sacrifice but the God who provides. This God is love. This God provides. This God will intervene in time, space and history to connect with humans and say “go” or “follow me”

This God is not like the gods of stress, worry, success, image, consumerism, self-absorption, that demand our sacrifices of health, time, peace, joy, relationships, distraction from the real issues of life, humanity as we were meant to be.

This God provides! Learning to step into it is and ongoing practice eh?

July 24, 2009

Blogging Again

Category: All Posts,Random Thoughts – Rose – 1:08 pm

I haven’t been blogging for a few months. Too much going on.

Alex played baseball in the Spring and then made the All Star’s Team. We lost control of our schedule. He had practices 6 days a week and then game to game depended on if they won or lost the prior game. He is obsessed with baseball! It was a ton of fun watching him but March through mid-July was a bit long.

My mom passed away in June. That was a tough time. Once again all the unresolved issues that come up for a highly dysfunctional family came right to the surface. The farther away I get from her passing the more I am able to disconnect from all the negative emotions that come from having to interact with my siblings. I am actually relieved that I don’t ever have to interact with them again. And when I say that, it might seem harsh but there are some times when there is no hope for reconciliation because without change it’s dangerous to put yourself back into an unsafe situation. Now that my mom is gone there is no reason and that is a relief.

Rich and I took a short trip to Vegas to just get away for a few days. While we were there my daughter convinced me to play in a Texas Hold’em tourney. I did, there were 154 players and I won! I played from 7:00 p.m. to 5:00 a.m. What a surreal, fun, crazy experience. I was in shock for days afterward. Rich and I walked around Vegas for the next 2 days in utter amazement we kept saying to each other “how did that happen?”

VCC is going well. Some changes coming soon. Very exciting.

I am on the last leg of my doctoral journey. I am writing my dissertation. I have been a bit paralyzed and blocked thinking about the 260 pages I need to write. Someone gave me a brilliant idea to write 12 pages at a time. I am going to try it. I am also blogging again. It helps me get the creative writing juices flowing.

We are having a beautiful summer in Seattle. I cannot remember a time that the weather was this great and for so long. Back to writing…

July 21, 2009

President Carter Leaves the SBC over Equality for Women

Category: All Posts,women – Rose – 9:40 am

I saw this on Eugene’s blog this morning. After 60 years President Carter is leaving the SBC. Here is his statement:

What do you think?

It’s important to note that President Carter writes in the larger context of the injustice against women in the global world including his “interpretation” of the larger segments of Western Christianity including the SBC.

Women and girls have been discriminated against for too long in a twisted interpretation of the word of God.

I HAVE been a practising Christian all my life and a deacon and Bible teacher for many years. My faith is a source of strength and comfort to me, as religious beliefs are to hundreds of millions of people around the world. So my decision to sever my ties with the Southern Baptist Convention, after six decades, was painful and difficult. It was, however, an unavoidable decision when the convention’s leaders, quoting a few carefully selected Bible verses and claiming that Eve was created second to Adam and was responsible for original sin, ordained that women must be “subservient” to their husbands and prohibited from serving as deacons, pastors or chaplains in the military service.

This view that women are somehow inferior to men is not restricted to one religion or belief. Women are prevented from playing a full and equal role in many faiths. Nor, tragically, does its influence stop at the walls of the church, mosque, synagogue or temple. This discrimination, unjustifiably attributed to a Higher Authority, has provided a reason or excuse for the deprivation of women’s equal rights across the world for centuries.

At its most repugnant, the belief that women must be subjugated to the wishes of men excuses slavery, violence, forced prostitution, genital mutilation and national laws that omit rape as a crime. But it also costs many millions of girls and women control over their own bodies and lives, and continues to deny them fair access to education, health, employment and influence within their own communities.

The impact of these religious beliefs touches every aspect of our lives. They help explain why in many countries boys are educated before girls; why girls are told when and whom they must marry; and why many face enormous and unacceptable risks in pregnancy and childbirth because their basic health needs are not met.

In some Islamic nations, women are restricted in their movements, punished for permitting the exposure of an arm or ankle, deprived of education, prohibited from driving a car or competing with men for a job. If a woman is raped, she is often most severely punished as the guilty party in the crime.

The same discriminatory thinking lies behind the continuing gender gap in pay and why there are still so few women in office in the West. The root of this prejudice lies deep in our histories, but its impact is felt every day. It is not women and girls alone who suffer. It damages all of us. The evidence shows that investing in women and girls delivers major benefits for society. An educated woman has healthier children. She is more likely to send them to school. She earns more and invests what she earns in her family.

It is simply self-defeating for any community to discriminate against half its population. We need to challenge these self-serving and outdated attitudes and practices – as we are seeing in Iran where women are at the forefront of the battle for democracy and freedom.

I understand, however, why many political leaders can be reluctant about stepping into this minefield. Religion, and tradition, are powerful and sensitive areas to challenge. But my fellow Elders and I, who come from many faiths and backgrounds, no longer need to worry about winning votes or avoiding controversy – and we are deeply committed to challenging injustice wherever we see it.

The Elders are an independent group of eminent global leaders, brought together by former South African president Nelson Mandela, who offer their influence and experience to support peace building, help address major causes of human suffering and promote the shared interests of humanity. We have decided to draw particular attention to the responsibility of religious and traditional leaders in ensuring equality and human rights and have recently published a statement that declares: “The justification of discrimination against women and girls on grounds of religion or tradition, as if it were prescribed by a Higher Authority, is unacceptable.”

We are calling on all leaders to challenge and change the harmful teachings and practices, no matter how ingrained, which justify discrimination against women. We ask, in particular, that leaders of all religions have the courage to acknowledge and emphasise the positive messages of dignity and equality that all the world’s major faiths share.

The carefully selected verses found in the Holy Scriptures to justify the superiority of men owe more to time and place – and the determination of male leaders to hold onto their influence – than eternal truths. Similar biblical excerpts could be found to support the approval of slavery and the timid acquiescence to oppressive rulers.

I am also familiar with vivid descriptions in the same Scriptures in which women are revered as pre-eminent leaders. During the years of the early Christian church women served as deacons, priests, bishops, apostles, teachers and prophets. It wasn’t until the fourth century that dominant Christian leaders, all men, twisted and distorted Holy Scriptures to perpetuate their ascendant positions within the religious hierarchy.

The truth is that male religious leaders have had – and still have – an option to interpret holy teachings either to exalt or subjugate women. They have, for their own selfish ends, overwhelmingly chosen the latter. Their continuing choice provides the foundation or justification for much of the pervasive persecution and abuse of women throughout the world. This is in clear violation not just of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights but also the teachings of Jesus Christ, the Apostle Paul, Moses and the prophets, Muhammad, and founders of other great religions – all of whom have called for proper and equitable treatment of all the children of God. It is time we had the courage to challenge these views.

July 20, 2009

Testing – Blogging Again

Category: All Posts – Rose – 10:41 am

This is my third post of the morning. Lost the first two. Testing….

April 6, 2009

Lenten and Easter Guides

Category: All Posts – Rose – 9:19 am

If you are like me, I am always looking for good resources to follow the church calendar and bring an awareness to our congregation how to journey together through our Story. Christine Sine has put together some amazing resources that you can find here

I hope your journey through this week of the Passion of Jesus results in great joy on Sunday!

March 28, 2009

Life is Full, Full, Full

Category: All Posts – Rose – 12:55 pm

I barely have time to reflect long enough to write any kind of meaningful post. Life is very full right now. Full of really good stuff. I leave on Monday morning to spend five days on beautiful Whidbey Island. The first two days with two women to begin planning a Northwest Region Women’s Conference for 2010. Then on Wednesday morning David Ruis and 15 songwriters come over for a two-day retreat. I am going to cook for them and just be a fly on the wall as creativity abounds. I come home on Friday just in time for the Missionality and Kingdom training that we will be hosting through Saturday. Then Saturday night David will lead us in worship with music and arts and then it will be Sunday again….whew!!

I am hoping to spend time on Whidbey writing for my dissertation. My dissertation project has been accepted and it is in the works.

In the meantime, Alex started baseball season so there is either a practice or a game every day – so fun to watch only we need the weather to figure out it is spring – it’s cold out there!

That’s if for now..

March 14, 2009

Go Add Your Comments

Category: All Posts,Questions about the Journey – Rose – 1:16 pm

Grace has posted thoughts I have had the last few weeks in her post “Absurdity Abounds” here

March 13, 2009

Two Links

Category: All Posts,Questions about the Journey – Rose – 10:22 am

I have not had much time to blog lately and I still don’t. A couple of things caught my attention this last week. First this article by internet monk.

The second this video from Rick Joyner.

What are your thoughts on one or the other or both?

February 11, 2009

I Need Help

Category: All Posts – Rose – 4:08 pm

Hi everyone,
I am in the process of beginning my dissertation. I need help doing a blind survey. If you would let all your friends ages 17-35 know about this I would be most grateful. I need them to visit my blog and either in the comments or by email to office@vineyard-cc.org and answer the following questions. Again, I need you to be 17-35 years old. All answers will be anonymous. I will use as research for my project and will own the rights to print them (anonymously) in other media. I am trying to reach 200-250 responses.

Again, please let as many as your friends know about this survey. Log into my blog and either answer the questions below in the comments or copy and paste the survey with answers into an email and send them to office@vineyard-cc.org

Survey

1. How old are you?

2. What gender?

3. Do you ascribe to any religion?

4. If yes, which one? Please describe if you are an active participant in your religion and what that looks like for you.

5. If no, please answer the following:

a. If you were going to investigate spirituality which brand of faith would you be interested in learning more about?

b. Why?

c. If you were going to join a spiritual community, what would you like the gatherings to be like, i.e., a church service, a small group meeting that has discussion, spiritual practices, would there be singing or music involved? Could you describe what kind of gathering you would find interesting and how often you would want to meet? Please try to describe in detail all of the different elements you would like included in a gathering of people exploring faith and spirituality together.